skip to main |
skip to sidebar
29 September 2007
Have I mentioned how boring my life is? I don't mean that I'm bored, it's just that I do the same things over and over again. I live a routine-filled existence. Here it is, a Saturday night, and I'm alone, as usual. Alone, but not lonely. That's the key thing. It really doesn't take much to make me happy. Time spent outdoors. Time on my computer. At Border's, Panera's or some other coffee shop. Doing this or that around the house. Simple things. The thing is, though, that when I'm not at work, I'm doing it all alone. Yes, I have my daughter, but she's a teenager, and not into hanging out with me. Unless I'm taking her shopping. So I kind of have two lives...the very social one I have at work, and the solitary one away from it. At work I'm surrounded by people. And, I'm constantly talking. It's part of my job. All of my clients request my company. Well, that's one way of looking at it. Of course they're there for me to do their hair, but that's only a part of it. They could go anywhere to have their hair done, but they choose me. I try to treat each client as very special, because they really are. I depend on them not only for the income they provide me, but for the social acceptance I gain from them. I enjoy their company. They make me feel like I'm an interesting person to be around. I need that. I think one of the reasons I like Panera's so much is that I'm surrounded by people there. And, I really think that's the kind of place I'll meet someone. So, when you hear I'm at Panera's or Border's, know that it's not just for the coffee....
The Girl With the Curl
About Me
- Cheryl
- I have the perfect job for me. I choose to be a happy person. I have a 23 year old daughter, a mostly local family and some great friends. I live in a sun-filled home that I love. I love to learn. I'm easy to please. I'm not always what I seem.
I Wonder What's In Here?
FEEDJIT Live Traffic Feed
My Blog List
-
-
Sunday - Happy Sunday A sunset from earlier this week Sunrise this morning 🎶 Stand Up, Stand Up for Jesus 🎶 George Duffield 1. Stand up, stand up for Jesus,...23 hours ago
-
Marching In - Here it is March already and winter just flew by. Anyway, another milestone was passed, 71 trips around the sun in January! If any of my followers are stil...3 weeks ago
-
-
My Take on a Southern Favorite - After the first couple of BLT's or caprese salads there are few other dishes that sing summer's praises like the tomato pie. Even restaurants like our fa...7 months ago
-
Hello world! - Welcome to WordPress. This is your first post. Edit or delete it, then start writing!1 year ago
-
-
This Saturday’s Recipes by The Pioneer Woman - This Saturday is a brand new episode of “Home Sweet Home” on Food Network. My kids are helping me shoot it, my production company in the UK is editing it t...5 years ago
-
Healthy Living as a Type 1 Diabetic: Tandem X2 Insulin Pump & Dexcom G6 CGM - *New Podcasts: * Healthy Living Diabetes: Tandem X2 Insulin Pump & Dexcom G6 CGM *30 minute podcast click here * 60 minute podcast click here Anyone who ha...6 years ago
-
Meg and Other Matters - Meg, Alex’s lifelong friend, got married Saturday! She’s Hyacinth’s daughter, and while it’s a little surreal that she is now a married woman, she found pr...6 years ago
-
Whatever It Takes - Have you ever been in a position of having someone--a spouse, significant other, someone very close to you--ask you a major, "What if..." question? I was h...7 years ago
-
Moving to a New Location - This year I will be blogging at: http://josietwoshoes.wordpress.com Please come and visit me there! :-)8 years ago
-
Back again - I miss my blogging friends. I have become addicted to Facebook and Twitter and it steals all of my time. The only blogs I usually read now are by bloggers...8 years ago
-
A quick update--- - I am still in the hospital, and I have to tell you --- my pain this time is so, SO much worse than ever before. I understand it is because he took out two ...9 years ago
-
The Watchers - A few years back I asked my grandmother what her earliest memory was. She thought for a moment and told me that the most vivid memory she has from early c...10 years ago
-
How I started the new year..... - A few days after January 1, I hurt my foot. I thought perhaps I had stepped on it wrong and sprained it. I knew I had a doctor's appointment coming up so...10 years ago
-
RIP Mom, I love you - July 8, 2015, my brother called to tell me my mother had passed away. I don't want to go into the details. It's been hard. I have a lot of guilt. I used Na...10 years ago
-
Diagnosis Today! - Well, my father just called and we are leaving at 11:30am to head to the doctor. sniff sniff. At least we will eat a good lunch somewhere. That gives m...10 years ago
-
Resisting - To quote a CBSnews.com article, "Flowers are blossoming. Bees are buzzing. The sky is blue. Sunsets have been stunning. Temperatures have crept north ...11 years ago
-
Author's Website - My new author's website and blog is live. You can find it here. Among other things, on the books page it has a synopsis of my soon-to-be-published book *Th...12 years ago
-
I Love Photography! by The Pioneer Woman - A short time after I started my blog in 2006, I got a “big girl camera” and began learning about photography. My learning approach was to take thousands an...13 years ago
-
-
Another Week Gone - *Earlier today I did manage to change my header pic to one from the Opryland Hotel Atrium in Nashville, TN. Harry and I enjoyed our time at the Ryman and ...14 years ago
-
HOPE CHEST - *I was recently asked a question by BlogHer:* *"How do I plan to create Happiness for myself in 2012?" Tough question if you ask me..** *(oh before ...14 years ago
-
Wow...I almost forgot about my blog! - The best intentions sometimes fall by the wayside once spring and summer get here. And what with addictive games and contacts on Facebook, my blog has suff...14 years ago
-
His name is "Stay!" - I'm lucky enough to get a call every so often from the Endress+Hauser Corporation to make something out of their spare parts. They give me full creative...15 years ago
-
-
-
-
-
Blog Archive
-
▼
2007
(392)
-
▼
September
(33)
- I had some pictures to post, but Blogger is not co...
- Have I mentioned how boring my life is? I don't me...
- Espresso Art In The Morning
- Friday night. Me and the bird, hanging around. Not...
- The bird really likes my keyboard. This isn't goin...
- I have a bird on my shoulder. A co-worker's neighb...
- Tired. Tired but still wanting to do a little writ...
- It's official...Fall is here.Yes, I'm one of those...
- Update: I fixed the link to Kit's blog. Sorry abou...
- Were you wondering where I've been? I don't seem t...
- It was a great day off! I was home on the computer...
- I'm not usually at Panera's in the afternoon, but ...
- I just finished a healthy broccoli/tofu stir-fry. ...
- Finally home after a long day at work. The day act...
- Continuation...So it was an off-kilter day. I did ...
- It's been a day of doing this and that. Nothing bi...
- Just finished a great dinner. If I must say so mys...
- Earlier today:Another morning of jumping out of be...
- Foremost in my mind has been the bad news that my ...
- Mother and Child
- OK. Sonogram done. I had no idea that almost all p...
- So we're sitting at the dinner table, eating our n...
- Morning! A sunny and cool one. I'll try to spend a...
- I'm so tired this morning. It's been a while since...
- I decided to get up and out. Emily's walking aroun...
- I'd rather be eating ice creamThe Orville Redenbac...
- I'm taking a chance here...I'm on the chaise on my...
- I'm having a very scattered day. Not scatter-brain...
- It's always such a nice surprise to visit someone'...
- I meant to write earlier about the doctor's visit....
- New day, I got a new attitude.I woke up bright and...
- I'm not in a good mood. How's that for a starter? ...
- How can it be Saturday again? It seems like the we...
-
▼
September
(33)


15 comments:
you never know who you might meet through your job,Tim is my daycare parents brother. maybe one of your clients has a brother...Good luck!
I wish you were my hairdresser. I've never had a regular one. I have trouble with consistency I guess. I almost had one until they moved. The next one that I went to more than once, changed salons, and another one moved once again. I don't get my hair cut often due to funds or time so it's hard for me to find someone regular. I'm sure you are wonderful and if I ever make up to your area, I'd love for you to have your way with my hair. (Don't be surprised if I do get up there at some point... I'm reckless that way!)
I work from my home so I miss the social contact of the workplace. I found that as my kids got older and were involved with their own lives, I didn't have enough social contact. I'm real active in an intensive parenting group and that work involves a lot of personal contact.
I don't have much of a social life anymore. Most of my life long friends live on the east coast in Jersey, Connecticut DC or New York. I have some friends here, but most of them are pretty busy, and we're kind of busy too with our youngin. It would be nice to be friends with some people that had a youngin that's the same age as our youngin. Hopefully we'll meet up with some of them eventually. Until then I think I'll suck back a beer and enjoy my solitude. ;)
In the end boredom really is a relative feeling - but then again, what isn't?
hi cheryl, most times, i go places by myself, but not necessarily because i want to. i love your attitude about your job and your clients. i'm near upper marlboro; what part of MD are you in?
I think you are a great person Cheryl, I love your blog. I know what you mean about teens, you are right---they don't want to hang out with their parents. You will meet someone, and he will be just right. In the meantime, I think your attitude is just great. I don't know about you, but I like the routine in my life. It helps to keep me sane. I am a new reader but I will be back. :)
Boring is sometimes a good place to be... it is without all the drama that makes for a crazy existence. To me, same old.. is a good thing!
New to your blog as well, enjoy your day to day posts.
Good luck finding that special someone...
I know if you didn't have routine in your life, you wouldn't like it. That's a huge part of who you are. I have heard you state so many times how you like routine. There's nothing wrong with that. I think that is a special quality about you.
You have awesome clients, I am sure. I agree with Annabel. If I ever get a chance to meet you, I am going to let you loose when doing my hair. BTW, you would love Annabel's hair. It's very pretty.
So you don't have Mr. Right banging on your front door right now. It's better than having Mr. Wrong popping up. ;)
I like routine too and I think most of us do. I think to be happy with every day things is a great way to be. There is a saying that goes something like, Enjoy the small things in life, for they may turn out to be the big things after all. Don't know the exact quote but you get the idea.
Enjoy your day.
I just may stop in one day for a haircut! Where you work, is there a bird store by it?
I think you've got the perfect attitude on life. And you never know where you might meet someone, those chance meetings tend to sneak up on a person...
My life is a lot like yours. Teens that don't care to hang out with me. I've been working on making new connections on the social level and sometimes it's not easy. In my case I crave solitude at time becuase I'm constantly interacting with people on the job. but I do enjoy the company of friends.
see you at Panera Bread
I've been telling my divorced aunt for years to go to a coffee house to meet nice people..she doesn't do coffee..she's into tea she says. :)
Cute post..I love how even in your writtings you can see your personality hidden behind your words!
Always,
Crusty~
My life is similar to yours Cheryl, in that I am around people and dealing with people all day, but come home to a house of absolute quiet. Actually, I love it! Though sometimes those weekend evenings can be rough. I think you are a wise woman to be looking for social interaction at the coffee place instead of at a bar! ;-) I do a lot of simple things by routine, that doesn't necessarily equate to boring - it just adds up to "me"! :-)
I spend a lot of time alone too. You are lucky to have a job which fufills your social side! If we are talking where I work that means the job isn't getting done!
Post a Comment
I love comments!